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The Carrot or Stick? What

We talk about education, speech and communication, forecast and anticipate the fears ...

Lesson of the Day: The Carrot is positive, the Stick hurts ...
And one who has misplaced ideas and begins to giggle so the class immediately! Eh!

Getting
The situation has Crapule in real life phobias two HUGE ... hairdressers (ok, maybe we would not have taken her to the hairdresser to 2 months ...) and Drs ... (Well there, we ALL have had this phobia at some time or another)
Today my lovely budding dictator had appointment with a NEW doctor, a pediatric surgeon who has not much compared with the end of his anatomy (I Psssstttt says SILENCE!) who turns out to be the FOOT (and fake! In your face you is laughing softly at the back over there!)
Except that when you say "Doctor", the scum begins immediately screaming, moaning, writhing ... brief ... It is the kind of shout loudly at the entrance to the building of his pediatrician! So here

Siouper Mum who for three days preparing, say, trying to reassure ... (And anxiety just to imagine the doctor's head when he saw the small red monster with blue eyes appear before him!)
And that's where the carrot comes ... (pssstttt)

A light bulb has come on in my little head, and VLA tipasa I promise my Robidou:
"If you're brave and you do not have a crisis at the Doctor you can choose in store a Dinosaur "...
The Stick was: "If you make a crisis, yet you will be deprived of e DVD" ....
Well ...

Processing ... An angel dust has settled on my head blonde ...
Not only did he not scream, but he even went up to perfection:
• Being Polite "Bonzour Doctor" •
strongly Psyching himself knowing bring the laurels of his courage "T ' saw ze not cry "
• Talking about everything and nothing" There's a crocodile "
• Be polite yet" Goodbye and Thank You "
• Being so cute he has garnered the secretary ... two lollipops!

And of course he had his Dino!

So I think that thinking the day is that the carrot is effective in all cases we ...

Memo to self: be modest the promises of carrot if you run to ruin!